Right thoughts in every situation

YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR THOUGHTS 

Various situation unfold in front of us throughout the day. We want to think right, speak right and behave the right way in every situation . We think about it to be right in every scene and we have a deep desire to do so . But later we regret,* The situation came and I reacted in the same old ways ."

"My mood was bad and I became angry."  "I got scared and felt anxious." Why are we not able to implement what we decide to do ? In those moments we say , " The situation for such that my mind got disturbed." We hold the situation responsible for state of mind. The more we are giving away our energy or power to them . Because we say , "I feel like this because of them."

The moment we point our finger whether it is at a situation or a person, at somebody's word or behaviour and we said ," I'm feeling this because of them." The moment we said this , we gave our power in that direction. So at that moment, we become a victim situation or to that person. We are slave now. We believe they have excerted complete control our state of mind, which is not the truth. 

No matter how big the situation is , no matter who the person is or how his behaviour is , it is all outside . Bring anyone situation on the screen of your mind right now, whether it has happened just today or in the past week, just bring the scene on full screen of your mind. What had happened? The other person behaved a certain way . In response, how I did feel , how did I speak and how did I behave  ? So the situation is outside. The person is outside . They are important but they are outside . They are stimulus , s situation . Situation means " Par - Stithi . "  Par means someone else , Stithi means situation . They are just playing their role . How did we think when they are playing out their role , how do we feel and what so we say in response , how we respond to the stimulus. The complete process of how I think , how I speak and how I behave, this is " MY CHOICE ." The other person is outside , he can say anything . He may lie to you , belittle you or shout at you that is all he can do but that other person cannot enter your mind . People can cheat  us , betray us , lie to us or criticize us , they can do everything outside but they cannot enter to our mind . We can say they cheated me , lied to me , they scolded me , exploited me . Someone exploited me financially or some exploited me physically but no one can hurt me emotionally . No-one can enter into my mind . 

Emotional abuse which means the negative thoughts we create whether it is anxiety, fear or pain . What happens inside my mind , this is my creation and I need to take responsibility. They are outside and it is only me , " I'm the creator of my every thought ." Even if you react impulsively in any situation never say , " It was because of them ." Just take personal responsibility and say , "I created it . Next time it will be different . "/Because just by saying I created it , I take the power in my hands . And if I say they are responsible then we are a slave to the situation. I am not a slave , I am a master of life . I am a powerful soul . I take responsibility of my every thought , word and behaviour . Personal responsibility of my thoughts , words and behaviour . 

Let us experiment this , no matter what situation comes throughout the day , let it ne any situation , literally any situation , let people behave in any way , let us be very cear , even if they say anything or do anything that whatever happens inside my mind here ismy creation . 

Reminds ourselves everyday , " I'm the creator of my every thought and feeling . " And second line , " I have a choice of how to think ."

When we revise this repeatedly that I'm the creator and I have a choice , we will start thinking right . We don't know whether the situation is right or not but thinking right is our power and our responsibility . So , take the responsibility of creating the right thought in every situation , with every person , always .